The main issue is not the condition of being in the presence of the opposite..but at the failure of humans in understanding the concepts…
Concepts of loyalty…and Love itself..
Therefore we see those who calls for Islam dating in the name of studying together..society leaders going out with their partners…maybe they’re hoping to end up with a good happy marriage..but How can anyone plant the seed of a tree..nurturing it with water and fertilisers..but at the same time pouring poison on it?It just doesn’t make sense..
It doesn’t matter if you’re single,married, a naqib, a naqibah, an ustaz, an ustazah or a babbling fool like me …it’ll always be a problem..you’ll always be around with an opposite sex…someone who thinks getting married is the end off the problem is be an idealist..not a realist…there’ll just be more of them…and that’s a fact of life…
We don’t get over it just by saying that we’re bored listening to the same thing repeated again and again…we should learn about it…a good feature of lessons in life is that they will repeat themselves…untill the student learns them…but as a wise man said “we don’t have time to make all the mistakes in life..so,we should learn from others”
Allah Bless us all with Strength and Guidance to learn…
Wallahualam…
People of the Rain... 